• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
Becoming UnBusy
menu icon
go to homepage
search icon
Homepage link
  • Start Here
  • About
  • Life Quotes
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
  • ×
    Home » Blog » Reset Your Habits

    Why This Should Be a Month of Rest, Not Resolutions

    Published: Jan 20, 2024 by Zina Harrington · Post may contain affiliate links

    686 shares
    • Facebook682
    • Email to a friend!

    This January, go against the grain. Make it a month of rest, not New Year's resolutions. Slow down and lean into the natural inclinations of winter.

    Woman holding a cut out paper heart with "hello winter" written on it.

    At the start of the new year, many of us feel the pressure to set ambitious resolutions, transform our lives, and embark on a journey of self-improvement.

    Yet in the early weeks of January, it's common for New Year's Resolutions to falter and fade away.

    This isn't because you lack determination or effort but rather because it may not align with the natural inclinations of the season.

    If you pause and observe the world around you, you can find valuable insights from the natural rhythms of winter that encourage you to take a different approach.

    Winter is a time of cold and quiet beauty. It is a time of hibernation, dormancy, and rest. It is a time to connect with our inner selves.

    Picture January as a long, peaceful winter's nap.

    Instead of rushing into the new year with resolutions, embrace this season as an opportunity for rest and reflection.

    Look outside, and you'll see that nature is in a state of stillness, waiting patiently for the renewal that comes with spring.

    This year, I encourage you to go against the grain.

    Instead of succumbing to the pressure of resolutions, honor the wisdom of winter.

    Rest. Release. Connect. These are the gentle whispers of winter.

    They guide us to prepare our minds, bodies, homes, relationships, and ourselves for a reawakening with the arrival of spring — a time when the natural inclination for goal setting is at its peak.

    Go against the social rules.
    Embrace the stillness of winter.
    Make it a month of rest, not resolutions.

    Let go of the guilt of resolutions and allow your intentions to align with the natural flow of life.

    Slow down and savor the present moment.
    Find peace in simplicity.
    Create space for transformation.

    Dive Deeper

    • A lit candle sitting in a dark window.
      Embrace Slow Living During These Short, Dark Days of Winter
    • Wintering pine trees covered with snow on a star filled night.
      The World Is Wintering & You Should Be Too

    Delve into more binge-worthy reads

    Here are a few additional resources to help you opt out of the hustle, align, and embrace an intentional life.

    • A somber woman grasping a hot mug of tea with both hands wondering, "Why is my life falling apart?"
      Life is Falling Apart: Here's Why, What To Expect & How To Reset
    • A woman holding a bouquet of sunflowers.
      How To Start Over: 5 Steps To Reboot Your Life
    • Two wood beach chairs sitting on white sand overlooking the ocean with a large canvas beach umbrella between them.
      Rest Is Not A Luxury
    • 5 Ways To Live A Simple Life

    Key Points

    • Resolutions tend to falter in winter because they often don't fit with the season's natural rhythm, making it challenging to sustain the commitment and enthusiasm that usually accompanies them.
    • Winter serves as a unique opportunity for rest, mirroring the way nature goes into hibernation during this season, offering us a chance to slow down and connect with our inner selves.
    • Finding mental clarity and peace is attainable during winter by simplifying your life and decluttering both your physical space and your mind, allowing you to focus on what truly matters.
    • Take this time to prepare your mind, body, and home holistically, setting the stage for personal transformation as spring approaches, aligning with the rejuvenation observed in the natural world.
    • Embrace the tranquility of winter, release the pressure to set immediate resolutions, and savor the joy found in the present moment, aligning your intentions with the season's unhurried pace for a more fulfilling journey of self-discovery.

    Love this New Year Resolutions post? Sharing it would make our week ♥

    It would make our week if you took a second to save or share this wintering post. That’s how we know we’re on the right track and should continue writing more content like this!

    A Piterest photo title collage for the article, "Why This Should Be a Month of Rest, Not Resolutions."
    « The World Is Wintering & You Should Be Too
    Embrace Slow Living During These Short, Dark Days of Winter »
    686 shares
    • Facebook682
    • Email to a friend!

    Primary Sidebar

    Portrait of Becoming UnBusy founder, Zina Harrington

    Hi, I'm Zina.
    I believe overwhelm and busy get in the way of finding time for what really matters in life. I help women unclutter, make space, and design a simple and slow life. Let's de-crapify your world → Ready to reset?

    Binge-Worthy Reads

    • A woman holding a bouquet of sunflowers.
      How To Start Over: 5 Steps To Reboot Your Life

    • Loving this collection of 12 Poems About Life For a Beautiful Life Well-Lived
      12 Poems About Life For a Beautiful Life Well-Lived

    • 5 Ways To Live A Simple Life

    • Anxious woman sitting relaxed with a book and cup of coffee.
      The 21 Day Anti-Anxiety Challenge

    • Woman holding her arms open wide in a vast field.
      200 Bucket List Ideas: Inspiration for Women Who Want to Embrace Life

    • 3 Documentaries That Will Change How Your Kids See The World

    Footer

    ↑ back to top

    About UnBusy

    • About
    • Privacy Policy
    • Disclosure
    • Accessibility Policy

    Slow Down In Life

    • Overwhelm and busy get in the way of finding time for what really matters in life. Begin slow living → Ready to reset?

    Slow Living Movement

    • "She silently stepped out of the race she never wanted to be in, found her own lane, and proceeded to win."
      — Pam Lambert

    Copyright © 2020

    As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.