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    Embrace Slow Living During These Short, Dark Days of Winter

    Published: Jan 21, 2024 by Zina Harrington · Post may contain affiliate links

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    Winter invites a slower pace. Here are ten ways to live intentionally and embrace this quiet, dormant season of rest… just as nature does.

    Lit candle shining bright on a window edge on a dark winter night.

    AT A GLANCE

    • Winter's tranquility invites a slower pace, mindfulness, and appreciation of simple pleasures.
    • Discover ten practical ways to make the most of the season.
    • Embrace intentional living by fostering connections, finding restful moments, and gracefully adapting to the natural rhythm of winter.

    The cold air, the hushed snowfall, and the shorter days all beckon us to slow down and savor the beauty of this stillness.

    On your journey toward slow and intentional living, winter is an opportunity to reset. It is an opportunity to gracefully embrace this quiet, dormant season of rest... just as nature does.

    Here are ten ways you can purposefully make winter a season of peace.

    01. Embrace Mindfulness

    In the midst of winter's embrace, take the time to be mindful. Be present in the moment and appreciate the subtle details of life.

    Find joy in sipping a warm cup of tea, listening to the crackling fireplace, or watching the snowflakes fall outside your window.

    Embrace these short days. Curl up with a book, a candle, and something delicious... coffee, tea, wine. Revel in the dark depths of winter so beautiful, black and so utterly without exception. Longer days will be with us soon enough.

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    02. Nurture Authenticity

    Slow living invites us to be our authentic selves. Embrace your true essence and let go of societal expectations.

    Recognize that your journey is unique. It's okay to pursue what truly brings you contentment.

    "What are you willing to give up in order to have the life you keep saying you want?" a wise older woman once said to me. said, "You're right - I really need to start learning how to say no to things don't want to do." She corrected me, "No, it's much harder than that. You need to learn how to start saying no to things you DO want to do, with the recognition that you have only one life, and you don't have t the time and energy for everything.

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    03. Cultivate Everyday Presence

    Slow living teaches us to be fully engaged in our daily experiences. Whether it's a walk in the snow-covered woods or preparing a cozy meal — be present and embrace everyday moments with gratitude.

    Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. a It can turn a house into a home and a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.

    04. Seek Clarity

    Take this time to gently reflect on your life's direction. What truly matters to you? What brings you joy and fulfillment? How can you find small moments of joy on the journey?

    Embrace the clarity that winter's stillness can provide, and let it guide your path.

    Don't wait for things to get easier, simpler, better. Life will always be complicated. Look for small opportunities for happiness in the moment you are in right now. Otherwise, you might run out of time. We can't often choose our circumstances, but we can better control our reactions and emotions. Choose small moments of joy.

    05. Practice Kindness

    Extend kindness to yourself and others. Reach out to loved ones, offer a helping hand, or simply offer a smile.

    In the quiet of winter, small acts of kindness can create warmth and connection.

    Happiness is the new rich. Inner is the new success. Kindness is the new cool.

    06. Embrace Balance

    Slow living encourages us to find balance in all aspects of our lives. Prioritize self-care, work-life balance, and the harmonious coexistence of your inner world with the outer world.

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    07. Embody Simplicity

    Simplify your surroundings and your routines. Let go of the unnecessary and create a space that resonates with calmness and authenticity.

    JOMO (noun) Joy Of Missing Out. Antonym: FOMO AUTHOR UNKNOWN

Feeling content with staying in and disconnecting as a form of self-care.

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    08. Live with Intention

    Embrace the intentionality of your choices, whether it's how you spend your time, the people you surround yourself with, or the goals you set.

    Observe and take note: Do your actions and decisions align with your values and purpose?

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    09. Cultivate Connection

    Slow living fosters deep connections with others and with the natural world. Reach out to friends and family, schedule a hike, engage in meaningful conversations, and relish the beauty of the winter landscape.

    When you are good for you, you feel it. This is a big deal. Don't forget to acknowledge how great it is to be around someone who lights you up. Tell them, even if you feel a little weird. Your people love your weirdness.

    10. Find Joy in Rest

    Finally, let's not forget the power of rest. Just as nature rests during winter, allow yourself the gift of a good book or puzzle, a slow schedule, restorative sleep, and unbusy days. It's during these moments of stillness that we often find the greatest inspiration.

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    Bringing It All Together

    So, my friend, as we navigate the heart of winter, remember that slow and intentional living is a journey. It's a path that invites us to savor each step, to appreciate the beauty of the present moment, and honor our wiring.

    Instead of resolutions, focus on rest. Gracefully glide through winter embrace.

    It's in this gentle journey that we'll find the true essence of living intentionally and embracing the natural rhythm of the new year.

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    Key Takeaways

    • Winter offers a chance to embrace slow and intentional living, aligning with the stillness of the season and nature's rhythm.
    • Ten ways to create a peaceful winter include practicing mindfulness, nurturing authenticity, and cultivating everyday presence.
    • Seeking clarity and reflecting on life's direction can provide insight and guide one's path during winter.
    • Kindness, both towards oneself and others, can foster warmth and connection during the quiet of winter.
    • Slow living promotes balance in various life aspects, self-care, and harmonizing the inner and outer worlds.
    • Simplifying surroundings and routines contribute to a sense of calm and authenticity.
    • Living with intention, aligning choices with values, and cultivating connections with others and nature are central to the journey of intentional living during winter.

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