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    Enneagram 3: The Achiever + Performer

    Published: Jun 28, 2022 by Zina Harrington · Post may contain affiliate links

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    An Enneagram 3 is often described as The Achiever. Does this descriptive name resonate with you? Learn more about Type 3 below!

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    Curious if you are an Enneagram 3? Figuring out which of the nine Enneagram personality types you are can be difficult. We're here to help.

    Understanding your personality type is worth the effort. The self-awareness of knowing you're an Enneagram 3 makes it easier to find effective and efficient ways to move toward a simple life!

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    • Type Three: The Achiever
    • Enneagram 3 Personality Under Stress
    • A Healthy Enneagram 3
    • Type 3: The Heart Triad ♥
    • Binge-Worthy Enneagram 3 Reads
    • Additional Enneagram Resources
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    Type Three: The Achiever

    Enneagram Threes are often described as The Achiever or The Performer.

    These highly-driven performers are often perceived as very successful in life and appreciate being looked up to for their hard work and achievements. They love to rise to a challenge, motivate others, and inspire hope.

    If you are an Achiever, you likely find failure unacceptable and might struggle as a workaholic, focusing the majority of your time on making sure others perceive you as successful.

    Enneagram 3 Personality Under Stress

    When Enneagram Threes are overwhelmed, they can lack drive, lose motivation, and be filled with self-doubt.

    When unhealthy Type 3s fail, they take it seriously and can truly struggle to let it go.

    In other words, when Enneagram 3s are stressed they shift toward the unhealthy side of Type Nine, The Sloth.

    • Woman making a peace sign with her hands.
      Enneagram 9: The Peacekeeper, Peacemaker + Mediator

    A Healthy Enneagram 3

    Healthy Enneagram Threes let go of defensive control, focus more energy on the people they care about, and embrace being loved for who they are vs what they do.

    In summary, when Enneagram Threes feel secure they shift toward the positive side of Type Six, The Loyalist.

    Learn more about Enneagram Type 6 and Type 9.

    • Enneagram 6: The Loyalist, Skeptic & Faithful Guardian

    Type 3: The Heart Triad ♥

    Enneagram Threes use how they feel as their primary guide when making decisions.

    This is because Type 3 is part of the Heart Triad. This heart centered triad is comprised of three types — Enneagram 4, Enneagram 3, and Enneagram 2.

    Learn more about the other Heart Triad types: Enneagram 2s and Enneagram 4.

    • A full coffee mug with the Enneagram 2 phrase "what good shall i do this day?" written on it.
      Enneagram 2: The Caregiver + Helper
    • Fashionable woman walking alone down a road surrounded by grass and mountains.
      Enneagram 4: The Creative, Individualist + Romantic

    Binge-Worthy Enneagram 3 Reads

    Do you think you might be an Enneagram Three? Here are a few additional Type 3 resources for you!

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      200 Bucket List Ideas: Inspiration for Women Who Want to Embrace Life
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      7 Smart Secrets for Women Who Want Better Work-Life Balance
    • Woman wearing winter gear outside in front of a mountain celebrating her new year's resolutions
      3 Of THE BEST Resolutions For Perfectionists & Workaholics
    • 5 Reasons Your Kids Need You to Abandon the Busy Life

    Additional Enneagram Resources

    Want to dive deeper into the Enneagram? Check out these additional resources!

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      The BEST Books on Enneagram
    • Person writing and doing an Enneagram test assessment on a clipboard with another person.
      The Best FREE Enneagram Personality Test

    The 9 Enneagram Personality Types

    Still not sure if you're an Enneagram Three? There are a total of nine personality types. Keep researching until you find one that resonates. Learn more about the characteristics of the other Enneagram types.

    • Woman with a cup of coffee and an arm tattoo that says, "guts over fear."
      Enneagram 1: The Idealist, Perfectionist + Reformer
    • A woman pausing to think as she holds a book.
      Enneagram 5: The Thinker, Investigator + Observer
    • Group of enthusiastic people on an adventure with their arms around each others shoulders.
      Enneagram 7: The Adventurer + Enthusiast
    • Woman with her fist raised ready for a challenge.
      Enneagram 8: The Protector, Challenger + Controller

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